Back to work with a bump ...

After a fantastic couple of weeks off for Christmas and New Year it was always going to be a bit tough getting back into the school and work routine and so it was a bit of a shocker when the alarm went off at 5:45am on Monday morning and it was back to the morning routine of making packed lunches, walking the dog and attempting to get three children out of bed and ready for school.

My three are a funny lot!  Still not sure the big girl is a bona fide teenager – I mean what other teenager gets out of bed at 6:30 every morning to walk the dog with her old mum? Don’t get me wrong I am eternally grateful for these moments we spend together when no one else is up yet – and these are the moments I hold onto when we are having one more “stop answering back” conversation!!  The boy on the other hand has to be coaxed out of bed every morning to the smell of fresh pain au chocolat – you know the ones that come in a can right?!  Dreading him hitting his teenage years, I mean how am I going to coax him out of bed then?  The little girl gets up without a problem, scrapes her hair into the messiest ponytail possible, slathers Nutella over something to eat and calls herself ready!!  All this whilst the dog sits on the windowsill watching the world go by.  Every morning is the same, we have our routine and we stick to it!

And so it was on Monday as we all set off on our first day back.  I was lulled into a false sense of security on the way back to work as the traffic was surprisingly light – this has not lasted.  I heard on the radio that it takes 4 days to get back into the groove at work after the holidays so I have stuck with that mantra all week.

One of the things I have been stressing about a bit is fitting all my training into the already a little too busy family schedule.  Up till now I have just downloaded a marathon training plan from the internet and gone with that – and it has worked pretty well but training for ultras and multi-stage races is something I know nothing about so my running buddy and I decided to enlist a coach to help prepare us.  We started working with our coach at the beginning of December and I think when you are paying for coaching and accountable to someone else there is additional pressure to make the plan work and do what you are told to do.  I have
to say it has taken me some time to adjust to someone else having control over my workouts and to really trust the process.

Over Christmas I have had more time to be able to make the plan work without the time restrictions of work and school and after school activities so this week was going to test whether I could actually fit everything in.  The answer is a qualified yes to be honest – it has been a bit of a juggle and here are some things I have
learnt this week:

  • After a hard tempo session on Monday night there is no point attempting to get up at 5am and run 5 comfortable miles.  I am struggling with early morning running whilst it is still so dark so waiting to run till the evening made more sense and stopped me beating myself up all day about snoozing the alarm and missing a session!

  • A hard hill session on Friday made for a suffer fest of 14 miles in the wind on Saturday – ever grateful to share those miles with my running buddy, without her I may have given up a lot sooner.

  • My life literally revolves around food and sleep and rolling – no joke I think I am obsessed!

  • It is ok to shift the plan around a bit – when I first spoke with my coach I said there are no days I can’t run – and that is true but there are days when life gets in the way and so it should and it is ok to move workouts around to accommodate that.

So I am heading into week 2 with a bit more confidence that I am back in the work and school groove, that I can make it all fit and that I can move workouts round a little bit to make it all work.

Keep showing up, keep putting the work in and it is all about the juggle!!

Much love xx



31 Days later ....

Finally it’s February - on the one hand January feels like it has just flown by and on the other hand it feels like it has taken a bloody age!!! January is cold, dark, dreary and it will be ages before we notice it getting lighter in the mornings and the evenings and I am pretty sure the worst of the cold weather is yet to come. Maybe if we left the Christmas lights up for a little bit longer it wouldn’t be so bleak?

And as if all that weren’t bad enough - every January I feel the need to counter-balance December’s excesses (don’t we all over-indulge in December? And I did have reason because it was my birthday too!) by going dry for the entire month. This year I felt an additional punishment was in order and swore off chocolate too!!

So I spent the 31st December munching my way through an entire box of Lindor and finishing off a bottle of red - I mean I didn’t want anything to go off whilst I was abstaining and I felt it necessary to remove to all temptation - and to be honest I didn’t want the littles scoffing the Lindor!!!

I have to say I have been bloody awesome all month. I would love to be able to say some sanctimonius stuff about how much better I feel for not having had a drink all month - I mean there is something to be said for the smug feeling of waking up on a kid free Saturday morning with a totally clear head but the reality is that it is cold and dark out so it has been easy to live like a hermit and avoid all temptation by just not leaving the house.

Avoiding chocolate has been a whole lot harder - there have been some serious low points - the pre-teen sitting in front of me eating Curly Wurly was one of them . But I have been steadfast - not even a sneaky lick of the Nutella knife at breakfast!! I have, however, eaten my own body weight in biscuits this month - so if there is a shortage of custard creams in the supermarkets you know who to blame!

And now finally February is here and it has had the decency to arrive on a Friday. My over-thinking has gone into overdrive - should I have a drink, and if I have a drink what will I have - what do I most fancy after abstaining for a month - a glass of red, a nice cold Peroni or even a g&t?

Much more importantly - is it wrong to eat all the chocolate for breakfast? And what if by some incredible misfortune after a month I no longer actually like chocolate?? What if I have ruined it for myself forever? What then??

xx

The 5 most common excuses for not exercising

When it comes down to exercising the phrase I hear the most is “I can’t because ….” So here I have put together the five most common excuses for not exercising and debunked each one!

  1. I don’t have time - this is by the far most common reason I hear. Ok I get it we are all super busy, it is not a competition to see who is most busy. But here is the deal, it really just comes down to what you prioritise - if you make watching tv a priority you probably won’t have a lot of time to exercise - what I am saying is if you make exercise a priority you will make time to do it.

  2. I don’t like exercising on my own - ok so don’t - find a buddy, rope a mate in. Personally running is my headspace so I relish being able to run on my own - although there is nothing better than having a mate along for a long run! But if you don’t like exercising on your own, grab a mate to exercise with or join a group class for extra motivation.

  3. It’s boring - let me tell you a secret - I find swimming agonizingly boring - so guess what - swimming is not my exercise of choice. Why? Because I just would end up not going. The point is find something you love and then you won’t find it a chore - think outside the box - why not try dance classes or borrow a mate’s dog and go for a walk?

  4. The kids/family come first - don’t they just! And so they should! As I said before running is my headspace and I guarantee that having that headspace time makes me a calmer mum! If you can’t get away what about taking the kids with you - in a buggy or if they are bigger they could cycle whilst you run. Or you could all just go for a bike ride together?

  5. I can’t afford a gym membership - ok so some gyms are pretty expensive but there are some great pay-as-you-go options and in this day and age there is so much free content on the internet - loads of workouts you can follow from the comfort of your own home!

So there you go, the five most common excuses for not exercising and a whole host of reasons to exercise - just go make you a priority!!

Much love x